Birth control

How we interpret dreams

Birth control in a dream: what does it mean?

Contraception in a dream is usually about control rather than about sex, and the reported detail is often that it has failed or gone missing.

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How do the four traditions read it?

Each reading below comes from a named tradition and a cited source, so you can see where it came from and decide what fits your dream. The four often disagree, and that is the point: a symbol rarely means one fixed thing, and the distance between Freud, Jung, modern research and myth tells you more than any single verdict could.

How did Freud read this symbol?

Freud would attend to the interruption, since a dream about preventing a consequence has arranged desire and its management in the same act.

After Freud, The Interpretation of Dreams (Brill trans., 1913), public domain.

How did Jung read this symbol?

For Jung the deliberate prevention can image a life choosing what it will and will not allow to grow, and the failure so often reported is worth reading as a question about that control.

Our summary of a Jungian reading, in our own words, not Jung's. See Jung, ed., Man and His Symbols (1964).

What does modern dream research say?

Under the continuity view these follow real use, real anxiety and real conversations about it. The plain reading, worry about an actual pregnancy or an actual method, is usually the correct one.

Our summary of the continuity hypothesis, named by Calvin Hall and Vernon Nordby, The Individual and His Dreams (1972). Its correct scope is disputed; see Domhoff (2017) and the replies to him.

What do myth and folklore say?

Attempts at contraception are ancient and mostly ineffective until recently, and the customs around them were largely secret and transmitted between women rather than recorded.

Rosmerta Publishing editorial synthesis (after Frazer; Brewer).

How can writers use this symbol?

The same symbol, read as craft material rather than as a dream. What it does on the page, how genres use it differently, and what happens when you turn it inside out. Written for novelists, screenwriters and poets who need the symbol to actually work, and it ends with something to try.

Where does this appear in literature?

Contraception is under-written in fiction relative to how much of adult life it organises, and the daily banality of it is almost entirely absent from the page. Access is a plot device in itself: what is available, to whom, at what cost and with whose permission has changed within living memory and is still changing.

Rosmerta Publishing editorial synthesis. Our own words; no quoted text.

What does it do in a story?

It makes a character's intentions about the future concrete, which is efficient. Structurally its failure is one of the oldest plot engines there is.

What are the genre conventions?

Literary fiction uses the conversation. Period fiction uses the absence of it, which shaped whole lives. Comedy uses the pharmacy, which is where most people's embarrassment lives. Historical fiction uses the absence, which shaped how many children a woman had and how long she lived.

How to subvert it

Write a couple discussing it practically, at length, with no tension at all, and make the scene interesting.

Try this

Write somebody counting back through a calendar. Two hundred words. No conclusion.

Only the first of these names a source. What a symbol does in a story, how genres treat it, how to invert it and what to try are our editorial judgement as writers and editors, not findings from a body of research. They are offered as craft opinion and should be argued with.

The books behind these readings

These are the books this entry actually draws on, not a general reading list. Where a text is in the public domain we link the free copy first, because you should not have to pay for something you can read for nothing. Every edition listed has been checked to exist and to be the right one.

  • The Interpretation of Dreams

    Sigmund Freud

    The source behind every Freud reading in the dictionary. This is the 1913 Brill translation we adapt from, and it is free to read online.

  • Man and His Symbols

    Carl Jung

    The accessible Jung, and the honest place to start for the archetype material our Jung readings summarise.

  • The Golden Bough

    James George Frazer

    Cross-cultural context for the myth readings. Public domain and free to read online.

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This is a starting point to think with, not a verdict. Your own associations matter most.

If distressing nightmares keep returning, it can help to talk them over with a doctor or therapist.

Interpretations are adapted in our own words from public-domain sources, including G. H. Miller, Ten Thousand Dreams Interpreted (1901), Freud (Brill translation, 1913), and Artemidorus, with cross-cultural context from Bulfinch and others. Jungian and modern-cognitive entries are original summaries of those ideas. See the bibliography for full sources.

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